10 Tips for Success at Our Singles Party

Excited about our upcoming singles event? With just two days to go, it's natural to feel a mix of excitement and nerves. To help you make the most of the event, here are 10 tips for success:

1. Set a positive intention. If you go in with trying to find “The One,” you may make yourself unnecessarily anxious. Avoid putting pressure on yourself and go in with a relaxed and open mindset. Maybe you’ll have a date, maybe you’ll meet your forever person, or maybe you’ll make some cool friends.

2. Dress to impress. First impressions matter. Researchers have found that first impressions happen in a tenth of a second! Wear the outfit that makes you feel confident and attractive. You’ll carry that energy with you as you’re working the crowd.

3. Highlight your unique qualities. On the dating apps, everyone loves to travel, can stay in or go out, and loves tacos and margs (yawn). This event is your time to stand out! Share funny stories, showcase your personality, and highlight the qualities and values that you want others to know about you.

4. Be curious about others. Avoid the “rinse and repeat” talk about jobs, family, and upcoming travel. Instead, focus on discovering the qualities and values that align with what you’re looking for in a partner. Thoughtful questions can lead to more meaningful conversations and spark an interest and create connections. If you feel stuck, use the conversation starter that you’ll get at check-in.

5. Feel free to skip the small talk. If small talk isn’t your thing, go deep. You won’t be alone in preferring deeper conversations. Put it out there with something like, “Small talk isn’t my thing. What’s something you’re passionate about at the moment?” Deep thinkers will appreciate you.

6. Flirt and show interest. Don’t be afraid to flirt and show that you’re interested. Research by psychologist Monica Moore identified 52 cues women use to signal interest to men. Researchers also found five flirting styles. Have fun exploring your natural style!

7. Be yourself. It’s important to be yourself because authenticity attracts natural compatibility. Pretending to be someone you’re not will draw people who aren’t a good fit. Be confident in who you are and show your true self to attract like-minded people.

8. Charge up. If you’re an introvert, social events can be draining. Prioritize your self-care before the event so you’re ready and energized to mingle.

9. Avoid comparisons. With around 250 people attending, it’s easy to get caught up in the comparison trap. She’s hotter than me. He’s the tallest guy here. I’m not as funny. Don’t diminish your own unique appeal. You don’t know what someone is looking for, and that person could be you!

10. Talk with me and Nick. We’re here to help! Whether you need a pep talk, are feeling anxious, or want help with introductions, find one of us during the event. We’re committed to helping you maximize your experience.

We’re excited to see you this Friday.

Cheers to finding love! 🥂
Anita